在我们日常的生活和工作中，难免会遇到小人，处于嫉妒，他们会致力于破坏你的生活和事业，或者踩着你往社会高层攀爬。这些人不达目的不罢休。所以一旦你与小人纠缠在一起，想摆脱他们不是一件容易的事。但是我有一些新颖的想法来对付这些小丑们。
In our daily life and work, It is inevitable to meet with dirty dogs ,out of jealousy, aiming to damage your life and career or step on you to rise through the social ranks. These peaple would be restless until they achieve their purpose.So once you entangled with bad eggs, it"s a tough job to get rid of them, but now I have some original ideas how to deal with the clown.
首先，你要比这些小人更注意自己的公众形象。如果你周围的人对你的道德水平评价不高，他们就不会信任你。这将导致严重的后果。因为一旦你失去他们的信任，如果他们有好的机会得到某些利益，他们只能会防着你而不是把机会提供给你。所以务必不要以牺牲自己的名誉为代价达到某些目的。
First, pay more attention to your public image than these dirty dogs.If everyone around you don"t think highly of your moral quality, they won"t trust you.That could lead to very severe result.For once you lost their trust, if they have some good opportunities to get some benefits , most of them will defance them from you instead of giving these chances to you.So make sure don"t achieve your goal by sacrificing your good reputation.
因为每个人都是通过观察你怎么对待别人来联想你怎样对待他们自己。如果你表现出了你的自私，或者欺凌，他们会想有一天你也会以同样的方式对待他们。尤其是你团队中英明的领导，他们判断你的被信任程度不仅仅看你如何对待他们自己，而且还看你怎样对待别人。
Because everyone is inclined to link your action-oriention to themselves by what you have done to somebody else.If you have performed selfishlly or bully to somebody, they will judge you that one day you may do the same thing to them. Especially the wise leader in your group will judge your trustable level by how you treat others, not only how to do with himself.
但是一旦你做出了对他们具有攻击性的行为，你的诚信将会遭受影响，因为“信任就像一张纸，一旦皱了，再舒展开，也不是那么回事了”，所以，你的丑闻将被广泛的并且延续的传播开来。除非你花费很大的努力做出一定的贡献，否则你的污点将一直伴随你，无论何时何地，很难被遗忘。
But once you have committed some attacks towards others, your integrity must be influenced badly,for "trust from others is like a piece of paper, once crumpled, it"s hard to keep as smooth as before." So, your scandal will be spread widely and continuously. Unless you offer great effort to do some contributions , your blemish will follow you whenver and wherever you are, and they are hard to be forgot.
但是你知道，易中天先生曾经说过“人生没有彩排，每天都是现场直播”。如果你用铅笔写错了字，你可以用橡皮擦掉他们，但是在生活中如果你做错了事情，想消除他是不可能的。所以我们必须小心我们日常行为。一些事情你一旦做了，后悔莫及。
But you know, Mr YiZhongtian has said, "There is no rehearse in life, everyday is live broadcast." If you write the wrong words by pencil ,you can erase them off with eraser, but if you do wrong in your life, it"s impossible to shed it.So we must take care of our daily behavior.Something once you have done, it"s no use to regret.
因此结论就是“如果有人想用不道德的手段让你垮台，最好的办法是给他机会让他充分表现，最后， 他将失去大家的信任，以至于给他自己的人生带来巨大的损失。”
So the conclusion is "if somebody wants to bring you down through immoral method, the best way is to give him the performing chance to let him behave fully, and at last, he will lose other"s trust, so as to bring great loss to his own life.”
